Uma ungakaze uye ku-aukuqinaukuzivocavocaindawo yokuzivocavocangaphambi, ungase ukhungatheke inani imishini kanye nabantu ekamelweni.Abantu abaningi bazizwa besaba, ikakhulukazi labo abangazethembi kangako.Noma ngabe ungumuntu osaqalayo noma i-guru, lezi zinsiza zizokusiza ukuthi wakhe amandla nokuzethemba.Alandelayo amanye amathiphu okwenza ukuvakasha kwakho kokuqala kube okujabulisayo.Nakhu ongakulindela.
Okokuqala, khumbula ukuthi aukuqinaukuzivocavocaindawo yokuzivocavocaiyindawo evumelana nemvelo.Okuhle kuzokusiza ukuthi uphile futhi ujabule.Amajimu amaningi azokucela ukuthi uveze iminyaka yakho yobudala kanye nomlando wezokwelapha ukuze akwazi ukuhlelela ukuqeqeshwa kwakho komuntu siqu ngokwezidingo zakho.Ngemva kokuqeda inqubo yokubhalisa, uzoboniswa indawo yokuzivocavoca kanye nezinsiza zayo.Uzonikezwa i-induction ekufundisa indlela yokusebenzisa imishini nokufinyelela ezindaweni ezahlukene.
Elinye icebiso ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese ngaphambi kokusebenza.Abanye abantu bayathanda ukubonana, kodwa uma kunguwe wedwa osebenzisa indlu yangasese, lokhu kungaba inkinga.Ngenhlanhla, iningiukuqinaukuzivocavocaindawo yokuzivocavocasinendlu yokugezela ekhethiwe.Uma ungaqiniseki ngendlela yokuhlanza imishini, cela othile ukuthi akugade.Awufuni ukuthethisa omunye umuntu ngesikhathi sokujima.
Ngaphezu kwendlu yokugezela, aukuqinaukuzivocavocaindawo yokuzivocavocakufanele ibe nendawo ehlanzekile, ebulala amagciwane, nehlanzekile.Akufanele neze ungene ejimini uma ugula.Lokhu kungabangela ingozi.Uma ungaqiniseki ngendlela yokuhlanza okokusebenza, buza othile owazi kahle.Uma kungenjalo, ukuzizwisa kwakho ngeke kugculise.Ungase ugcine ulahlekelwe umdlandla futhi uzizwe ukhungathekile.Khona-ke, kunezinye izindlela zokwakha amandla nokukhuthazela.
Uma ucabanga ukuthenga aukuqinaukuzivocavocaindawo yokuzivocavoca, qiniseka ukuthi ucabangela uMthetho WaseMelika Abakhubazekile (ADA).Lo mthetho uyakuvikela ekubandlululweni okusekelwe ekukhubazekeni emisebenzini kahulumeni, ekuqashweni, nasezindaweni zokuhlala zomphakathi.Aukuqinaukuzivocavocaindawo yokuzivocavocakumele icabangele izidingo zawo wonke amalungu.Ijimu eklanywe kahle futhi esebenzayo kufanele ifinyeleleke kubo bonke abantu.Uma unokukhubazeka, akufanele wesabe ukutshela umqeqeshi wakho umlando wakho wezokwelapha.
Ukukhetha aukuqinaukuzivocavocaindawo yokuzivocavocaenezici eziluhlaza kubalulekile ngenxa yezizathu ezihlukahlukene.Ngaphezu kweqiniso lokuthi kulula ukuyihlanza nokuyinakekela, indawo kufanele ibe nobungane kakhulu kunendawo yokuzivocavoca ejwayelekile.Isibonelo, kunezinhlobo eziningi zemishini esimeme, kodwa ezimbalwa kuphela ezifanele izidingo zakho.Lokhu kungakusiza wonge imali futhi uhlale unempilo.Kufanele futhi iphephe kuwe nakwindawo ezungezile.
Isikhathi sokuthumela: Dec-20-2021